I feel so small when I see well-endowed men pleasuring my girlfriend at swingers’ parties
DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I go to a swingers’ party with my girlfriend, I find myself staring at the other men and just wishing I could…
I fantasise about having sex with my stepsister after our antics as children… I feel so guilty and ashamed
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop fantasising about having sex with my stepsister.As children, we would lock ourselves in the bathroom, take off our clothes and…
I’m an older woman’s booty call – the sex is incredible and she’s impossible to resist but I want so much more
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a male booty call for a woman who organises all the kids’ trips at the school where I work – but I want…
I started casually dating my cheating ex again, now I’m pregnant with his child – how can we be good parents together?
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my ex again after he cheated on me was so painful and now it’s got even more complicated.I made it clear that…
I’m sick of still being my long-term lover’s sexy secret 12 months after he left his wife
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing…
I want to cut toxic father out of my life – I won’t stand for criticism and lies
DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to cut my toxic father out of my life, but guilt is holding me back.I’m 40, and the eldest son of…
My late wife’s family are spoiling our children and it’s sending the wrong message
DEAR DEIDRE: HOW do you tell a well-meaning relative to back off?My wife died three years ago, leaving me a single dad to our twin…
I need financial support from my daughter’s dad – but fear him demanding visiting rights
DEAR DEIDRE: FOR the past nine years, I have provided everything my daughter has needed.But it would be nice to have some financial support so…
The man I love is 20 years older and my dad says he’ll never accept him
DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I’m in love with is 20 years older than me, and my dad says he will never accept the relationship. Although I…
My mum is terrified of my sister who is making her life hell
DEAR DEIDRE: MY sister only speaks to our mum to criticise her. She makes life hell for both of us.I’m a 22-year-old single man. My…
Our adult son wants to pack up his life and travel – but wants me and his dad to fund it
DEAR DEIDRE: OUR son is keen to pack up the life he has here to travel, but he wants me and his dad to fund…