A GYPSY has shared some of the unique traditions they have at their weddings, including why their first dances are so different.
Porsche McMillian posted a video on her TikTok, giving a behind-the-scenes look at what goes on during the day as part of a ‘spend the day with me’ vlog.
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She showed off the wedding hall, which was in Durham, with the chairs decorated in purple ribbons and beautiful flower arrangements.
The bride looked stunning in a massive white ball gown covered in what appeared to be encrusted diamonds.
She carried a purple bouquet and finished her look with a tiara and veil.
Porsche, who wasn’t the one getting married, said the whole day was “just so lovely.”
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They had photos taken and got the chance to catch up with everyone.
She also filmed the drinks station, where someone dressed up in costume was handing out drinks.
Porsche explained that at a gypsy wedding, there’s usually a “little dance first” before everyone sits down for dinner.
For their meal, they had a classic Sunday roast, followed by the speeches.
After the speeches, Porsche said it’s normal to “go back” to your room to get changed for the evening celebrations.
Later, everyone came back together for the cake cutting and the first dances.
There was one between the bride and groom, and another between the groom and his mother-in-law.
Talking about the evening party, Porsche said: “The nighttime was a really, really good vibe and a good time.”
Within three days of sharing the video on TikTok, Porsche had racked up 419k views.
Her video also got 131 comments, with loads of TikTokers sharing their thoughts.
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One wrote: “I am LIVING for every single one of these outfits.”
Another said: “Everyone dressed up beautifully.”
And a third added: “Very classy women dressed beautifully.”
A closer look at gypsy traditions
HERE we take a look at some of the traditions many gypsies follow…
Family-Centric Living: The family is the cornerstone of Romani life, with extended families often living close to one another. Elders are highly respected and play a crucial role in decision-making and maintaining cultural traditions.
Nomadic Heritage: Many Gypsy communities maintain a semi-nomadic lifestyle, moving seasonally to find work or attend cultural gatherings. This tradition is deeply rooted in their history and identity.
Distinctive Décor: Romani homes, whether they are caravans or fixed abodes, are often brightly decorated with vibrant colours and intricate patterns. These decorations reflect their rich cultural heritage and love for beauty.
Communal Gatherings: Social gatherings are a significant part of Gypsy life. Celebrations, such as weddings and religious festivals, are grand affairs involving music, dance, and feasting, often stretching over several days.
Spiritual Practices: Many Gypsy families incorporate a blend of Christian beliefs and traditional spiritual practices. Homes may feature religious icons and amulets believed to offer protection and bring good fortune.
Craftsmanship and Artistry: Romani people are renowned for their craftsmanship, particularly in metalwork, woodwork, and textiles. These skills are often passed down through generations and are a source of both pride and livelihood.
Hospitality: Hospitality is a valued tradition. Guests are treated with great respect and generosity, often being offered the best food and drink available as a sign of honour and goodwill.
Sharing Stories: Storytelling is a vital part of Romani culture, preserving history, morals, and lessons through generations. Elders often share tales that are both entertaining and educational.